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In the June 30th edition of this paper the Tell Us Your Opinion question was Pornography in the marriage Where to draw the line This is a topic of discussion that we bring up in our PREP marriage classes and is I believe a topic of vital importance to the health of Marine Corps marriages In responding to issues it is common to give the BLUF Bottom Line Up Front BLUF Pornography has no place in marriages and is destructive in marital relationships Bear with me as I unpack the BLUF from a male perspectiveRomance love and sexual pleasure are Gods good gift to us Lust is the opposite of the purity of romance love and sex as originally intended Lust can be defined as deformed sexual desire and as an excessive desire for ones own sexual pleasure Lust is self-centered and is focused on ones own self-gratification Lust has been rehabilitated in our culture There is a prevalent belief that the only damaging thing about lust is suppressing it Society has divorced sex from morality and sees it as just a physical need to satisfy and as long as it is consensual it is just harmless funEntire books have been written on the topics under discussion in this article space only allows me to provide a brief summary Within the marital bond sex is good lust not so much Pornography creates a warped perception of people relationships and sex Pornography teaches unrealistic and inappropriate sexual experiences it decreases satisfaction with monogamy and lowers family loyalties it objectifies and degrades women it encourages promiscuity and it increases susceptibility to sexually acting out in ways harmful to others Additionally pornography objectifies men and women portraying them as sex objects whose worth lies in the size and shape of their body parts It should be noted that men tend to be very visual and when they look at a nude woman they spend more time looking at
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