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My first sexual encounter is what changed me the most in both positive and negative ways Many people take sex for granted Others see it as dirty disgraceful or wrong In either circumstance people fail to see the power and beauty of it My view is neither of these In some cases people have sex purely for the physical pleasure Others do it because they feel unloved or are starved of affection I do not believe these are good reasons One night stands and friends with benefits are the simplest form of this type of sex I do not have sex solely for this reason because the risk strongly outweighs the benefits Emotion in my opinion should play a large role in sexual intercourse Sex is much better if it is with a person that I care about It makes me feel connected to the person in ways that would be otherwise impossible By waiting until I know and care about someone and they feel the same way I can prove to myself and others that I am responsible If I did not do this then I would be no different than those guys that have sex because of peer pressure or because the media makes them think that it is the cool thing to do People like that are often shallow and incapable of having a meaningful relationship Although it has many benefits it also has its downside Sex can make an otherwise simple relationship turn complicated in an instant Distress can occur if one person feels differently about sex Page 1 then their partners The negative physical aspects have to be taken into consideration as well By being promiscuous you enhance the risk of exposing yourself to a sexually transmitted disease or an unplanned pregnancy A scare is what brought me to all of these realizations It has caused me a large amount of emotional damage
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