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Surfing the singles scene can be an extremely time consuming and often frustrating pursuit of love especially if you are unsure about how to make the first step While I cant give you a magic formula that guarantees success every single time I can give you some basic guidelines on how to proceed and hopefully succeed When you see someone you would like to ask out the first barrier youll need to overcome is actually starting a conversation with them This stage is a lot easier for women than it is for guys This is the most tricky area as first impressions count - a lot Guys are almost always just automatically interested when a girl comes to talk to them Women however are not They usually make up their mind on whether they want anything to do with you almost before you even open your mouth Therefore the first step and this goes for both males and females in asking someone out is to be presentable and project confidence Presentation and Confidence People very often make pre-judgements on whether you are or arent their type by how you are dressed and how you look overall If they perceive that you are for want of better wording on a lower level than them it can be a very difficult objection to overcome One rather extreme example of this would be if you were dressed as a punk with a mohawk nose ring and all the accessories that go with that image and you tried to approach a person who was dressed in a fairly expensive business suit that oozed sophistication it would be very unlikely that you would stand any chance at all with getting to know them Its not that there is anything wrong with the way that you look but its more that they dont feel that you are an appropriate match for them The above example really just serves to illustrate a
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