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One womans issue was that her husband may have flirted with another woman some two years ago She was absolutely consumed with this unable to let it go and was wondering what to do Another complained that in years past her husband had seemed distant and had become a poor listener She was trying to figure out what she had done wrong It was as if she were playing ping-pong in her mind saying things such as It could have been this or it may have been that Finally a man called to share his frustration that in his first year of marriage his wife had racked up some hefty credit card bills He couldnt sleep nights because he was caught up in the fear that she might at some point repeat this behaviour despite the fact that she seemed to have curbed her habit and learned her lesson He was still angry with her for what she had done to their future security I felt like yelling Let it go But that was hardly the advice the talk-show hostess was offering On the contrary she encouraged the couple to get even more caught up and analytical about events and issues and to fill their heads with doubts fears and additional concerns She would say things such as Have you considered that there may be a pattern here and Oh my God Ive heard this before Be careful Before I go on let me assure you that Im not making a case for flirting outside of marriage poor listening skills or overspending All three issues can and often do contribute to problems in marriages as well as other relationships However most people seem to completely ignore the negative impact of hanging on to such issues to a point of diminishing return We forget what a drag it is to be around people who cant let go
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